Life is full as a family of eight! People ask me how I do it, and my honest answer is "I don't really know except by the grace of God." Some days seem perfect, and others, well, let's just say, not so perfect! Here is a peek into my busy life as a mother of 6 wonderful kids (Elley, Eric, Andrew, Emma, Sam, and Sierra) and wife to the best husband in the world.
Thursday, October 6, 2011
Hop and BIG FISH
There once was a frog named Hop. He was a naughty little frog who always wanted to do the right thing, but always found himself in trouble. On this particular day, Hop was planning a cooling summer swim with his friends. His mother had warned him that on such hot days, the big fish in the water loved to feast on little frogs, but Hop didn't care. Nothing was going to stop him. All he could think about was the feeling of the cool water rushing over his little frog body, beginning with his toes all the way to his nose. He gathered his friends and they headed for the pond. The lilly pads were especially green and there was an area of the pond, shaded by the trees, that was much cooler than the rest of the pond. Who was going to go first was the only question Hop and his friends had in their minds. Each wanting to beat the others into the water, they all jumped in seemingly together, although Hop was certain that he had been first! The cool rush was just as he had hoped it would be.
As Hop and his friends were enjoying their swim, leaping from lilly pad to lilly pad, some big, some small, they didn't notice that the other animals standing on the bank of the water were watching them with a curious look. There were birds, and deer; skunks and squirrels. Each time Hop looked over at these onlookers, he noticed their glare became more and more intense, as if they were waiting to see what was going to happen. Thinking little of it, Hop continued to swim, remembering to be careful, but also feeling invincible.
Suddenly, Hop's frog friend Chino made a big splash as he leaped up onto the large lilly pad in the middle of the river. He waited there and called to his friends to join him quickly. Each frog hopped to safety. They watched intently as the BIG FISH circled their cluster of lilly pads. He circled and circled, bumping the lilly pads from underneath. Hops heart beat faster than it ever had. Oh, how he wished he had listened to his mom. If only he could reach the edge of the pond in one leap. BIG FISH came around for one last attempt to bump Hop off his lilly pad, almost with success until Mr. Beaver swam close by and scared the BIG FISH away. Mr. Beaver had promised Hop's mom and dad, secretly of course, that he would keep an eye out for Hop and his friends when they were swimming at the pond.
Not wanting to crush Hop's autonomy, Mr. Beaver pretended that he had not seen the BIG FISH threatening the young frogs and simply asked Hop how his day was going. Hop gave a shaking reply and returned the question. Mr. Beaver was an old, wise beaver. His family had occupied this pond for over 100 years. All he could say to Hop was "Nice to see you. Say hello to your parents."
Hop promised he would and quickly waved his friends to follow him to safety on the bank of the pond. As Hop returned home that night, he pondered the wisdom of his mom. He knew she had been right and realized how close he had come to being eaten up in one big gulf of the BIG FISH's mouth. Hop loved his mom and decided from that moment on, that he wanted to do a better job obeying her words. He hugged her tightly with his wet slimy arms. Hop's mom could feel his heart beat fast. At this point she knew Hop had seen BIG FISH. She hugged him back and in her quiet, humble way, without words, communicated her pleasure that Hop had learned his lesson.
The End!
Facebook Funnies
I have posted some of our funny stories on Facebook and thought it might be a good idea to put them on our blog... so here they are, most recent to oldest:
So as Eric was putting on his new strappy gun vest to hold his new air soft
pistol, Sammy, thinking it was a black bra, looked at him with a slight smile,
kind of feeling embarassed for him, and he said quietly as if to warn Eric:
"Eric, that is for mommies."
I don't know which is more upsetting... That my 21 month old spotted a McDonalds
a quarter mile away and said "mmmmm, yummy!" or that my 3 year old
asked me if I could make him a coffee with two splendas.
Me: "Sam, what flavor is your lollipop?" (it was purple)
Sam: "MOTRIN"
DearNaomi,
I know you are only 3, and I know you have no idea how
much of an affect you have had on my Sammy, but I must say, he is ready to
betroth you. Today he told me that YOU were HIS girl and he loves you and that
you belong to him... kind of like a pet belongs to its owner. It was funny, and
kind of scary at the same time. So please know, sweet little girl, whose
picture Sammy kissed all afternoon on the apple book he brought home from
preschool, I am praying for you, should you be the one for my boy.
When I told Sammy that our Bible study friends were coming today he was so happy. He
responded by asking "Do you mean Maggie (his little 4 yr. old friend)?"
Yes, Sammy... I mean Maggie. He went on... "Awwwww. I love my girlfriends.
I have lots of girlfriends." Yes Sammy, you do. Keep this up and you
always will.
{Setting: Aaron and I are driving Eric in the minivan}
Eric: "Mom, why does your stomach hurt?"
Me: (Totally honest) "I think I ovulated today... no big deal."
Eric: "Come Again?! What does that mean?"
Me: "Um..." ..(long silence).. "well, once a month an egg is
released..."
...
·
Love coming home at midnight from a date to find the evening
report taped to our door with a band-aid.
Sammy just asked, "Where's Andrew and Dude?" I asked, "Who is
Dude?", he answered: "Andrew's friend." (aka: Paul)
Eric was crying because we would not spontaneously take him to a Skins game today.
So I asked Sam to go cheer him up... the conversation went as follows:
Sam: Eric, why are you sad?
Eric: Because Daddy won't take me to a football game
and I might never have another chance to go.
Sam: It's ok Eric. When I'm grown up and I'm a daddy,
I'll take you.
I asked Sam why he took the jacket off my book and ripped it into 10 pieces.
Apparently he was making a door. I choose to consider that resourceful instead
of destructive!!!!
Ok... a little scary... I was telling an improv story to my 3 year old and just had
to finish it, even though he fell asleep. I wanted to know how it ended, even
though I was making it up. Oh my.
In the car today, Elley, Aaron and I talked about past boyfriends and
girlfriends....
Me: Daddy and Mommy had girlfriends and boyfriends
before we met and got married.
Elley: Mommy probably had more than you did, Dad.
·
He fell asleep during dinner again!!!
{Scene:
upstairs in our bedroom, three older kids on the floor playing/roughhousing,
Sam (our 3 year old) and Aaron are on the bed relaxing...}
[Aaron] "Sierra [our 18 month old] is
sleepig...kids, be quieter or I'll have to kick you out."
[Sam] "Dad, don't kick them..they are
family."
Andrew (age 9): Mom, eating a hotdog in Camden Yards is
something you experience at some point in your lifetime."
...thanks for the tip, babe.
My Aunt Connie: "It is so fun coming to your house. It's even more fun
leaving!" (speaking of leaving the chaos of a large family)
on the way to see "Monte Carlo" with Elley and Emma:
Me: "so girls, what do you want from the
concessions?"
Elley:"popcorn"
Me: "I want a coke"
Emma: "I want Sour Patch Kids. Just thinking of
them puts a little sizzle in my mouth!"
Me: intensely dangerous laughter while driving.
Me: Sam, when someone gets you a gift, what do you say?
Sam: Give it to me.
Silence is golden unless it's coming from the pantry which contains your 1 and 3 year
olds!
Emma's prayer tonight (age 8) that God would
1. Help her learn to ride a bike and be brave.
2. help all the children, including her own in the
future, to be brave in the face of a shot or cavity.
3. help her not get a cavity
4. help her pick a good husband!
much of an affect you have had on my Sammy, but I must say, he is ready to
betroth you. Today he told me that YOU were HIS girl and he loves you and that
you belong to him... kind of like a pet belongs to its owner. It was funny, and
kind of scary at the same time. So please know, sweet little girl, whose
picture Sammy kissed all afternoon on the apple book he brought home from
preschool, I am praying for you, should you be the one for my boy.
When I told Sammy that our Bible study friends were coming today he was so happy. He
responded by asking "Do you mean Maggie (his little 4 yr. old friend)?"
Yes, Sammy... I mean Maggie. He went on... "Awwwww. I love my girlfriends.
I have lots of girlfriends." Yes Sammy, you do. Keep this up and you
always will.
{Setting: Aaron and I are driving Eric in the minivan}
Eric: "Mom, why does your stomach hurt?"
Me: (Totally honest) "I think I ovulated today... no big deal."
Eric: "Come Again?! What does that mean?"
Me: "Um..." ..(long silence).. "well, once a month an egg is
released..."
...
·
Love coming home at midnight from a date to find the evening
report taped to our door with a band-aid.
Sammy just asked, "Where's Andrew and Dude?" I asked, "Who is
Dude?", he answered: "Andrew's friend." (aka: Paul)
Eric was crying because we would not spontaneously take him to a Skins game today.
So I asked Sam to go cheer him up... the conversation went as follows:
Sam: Eric, why are you sad?
Eric: Because Daddy won't take me to a football game
and I might never have another chance to go.
Sam: It's ok Eric. When I'm grown up and I'm a daddy,
I'll take you.
I asked Sam why he took the jacket off my book and ripped it into 10 pieces.
Apparently he was making a door. I choose to consider that resourceful instead
of destructive!!!!
Ok... a little scary... I was telling an improv story to my 3 year old and just had
to finish it, even though he fell asleep. I wanted to know how it ended, even
though I was making it up. Oh my.
In the car today, Elley, Aaron and I talked about past boyfriends and
girlfriends....
Me: Daddy and Mommy had girlfriends and boyfriends
before we met and got married.
Elley: Mommy probably had more than you did, Dad.
·
He fell asleep during dinner again!!!
{Scene:
upstairs in our bedroom, three older kids on the floor playing/roughhousing,
Sam (our 3 year old) and Aaron are on the bed relaxing...}
[Aaron] "Sierra [our 18 month old] is
sleepig...kids, be quieter or I'll have to kick you out."
[Sam] "Dad, don't kick them..they are
family."
Andrew (age 9): Mom, eating a hotdog in Camden Yards is
something you experience at some point in your lifetime."
...thanks for the tip, babe.
My Aunt Connie: "It is so fun coming to your house. It's even more fun
leaving!" (speaking of leaving the chaos of a large family)
on the way to see "Monte Carlo" with Elley and Emma:
Me: "so girls, what do you want from the
concessions?"
Elley:"popcorn"
Me: "I want a coke"
Emma: "I want Sour Patch Kids. Just thinking of
them puts a little sizzle in my mouth!"
Me: intensely dangerous laughter while driving.
Me: Sam, when someone gets you a gift, what do you say?
Sam: Give it to me.
Silence is golden unless it's coming from the pantry which contains your 1 and 3 year
olds!
Emma's prayer tonight (age 8) that God would
1. Help her learn to ride a bike and be brave.
2. help all the children, including her own in the
future, to be brave in the face of a shot or cavity.
3. help her not get a cavity
4. help her pick a good husband!
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Wonderful Cuteness
Sam decides to eat under a bucket, standing on a stool in the kitchen while Sierra helps with the laundry...sort of!
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Emma My 2nd Grader At Home
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Friday, November 19, 2010
In Memory of Nathan
My brother, only sibling, and best friend passed away on Sunday October 31st, 2010. It was unexpected. He silently and instantly passed from this life to the next into the beautiful arms of the Savior. Autopsy reports are inconclusive so far. My heart desperately aches for my brother. We were more than siblings and more than friends. We were both at the same time which connected us stronger than any other connection two people can have, bar marriage.
Nathan and I shared memories, some good and some bad. He endured my bossy know-it-all years when I harassed him about taking too much soda and driving too fast. He put up with my controlling habits and tolerated my nagging criticisms. I am still not sure how he did it. He used to say "I hope you marry a man that can put up with you!" Even with the way I tried to mother my brother, he loved me and as adults we got along great.
I appreciate Nathan for the way he made me laugh. He lived a life filled with trials and suffering and his humor sustained parts of me when it was unbearable to watch. He and I shared a childhood that is impossible to explain. As adults we laughed often about all the crazy memories of mom and dad. He called me "CM" (short for Catherine MacAllister). He'd call me up on the phone :"Hey CM, guess what dad did. Hey CM, if I have to hear McDougall's name one more time I am going to scream!"
We laughed and cried together for the nine years he lived with me, just before his paralyzing accident. We hugged goodbye and sobbed in each other's arms as he departed for California to attend Project Walk where he spent the last two and half years of his life learning how to take steps again.
The Saturday before he died, it was as if his spirit knew he was about to leave this Earth. He called all his family members, in an amazingly happy mood, to talk and just be together in conversation. The next day he was gone.
Nathan, there won't be a day that passes that I won't miss you. You leave an irreplaceable spot in my heart. I love you and can't wait for the day when I join you in eternity, in the arms of Jesus. Until then, I just remember all the good times we had and the secrets we shared. I am glad you have no more pain. I am comforted at the thought that you are running through Heaven's streets proclaiming the majesty of God. It must be truly awesome!
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Thursday, September 23, 2010
My Brother Walks
Go Nathan! Keep working... you'll be walking home soon enough. Miss you and love you brother. I'll buy you some smaller sized shorts when you come for Christmas! ;o)
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Proverbs 31 Wife Disappointment
I have a wonderful fantasy about keeping the kind of blog that paints a poetic picture of life as a Proverbs 31 wife. She sews, cooks, cleans, owns her own business, and gardens among many other things. But for me this seems more like fantasy than an obtainable reality. Don't get me wrong. I live a lovely life, couldn't love being a mom more than I do, and I don't just blow off any attempt to align my life to more closely resemble the poetic one I dream of. I do. But this post reflects more of my reality. You see, I can't sew, nor do I have the time to with the demands from raising six kids in a hustle and bustle suburban area. Anyway, even if I did sew, I might be able to push out clothes enough for one or two outfits of the 30-40 each season demands for a family of eight, so I figure, what's the point? And, this brings me to my theme for this post... gardening. This year, I figured I'd try my hand at gardening our own tomoatoes, one for my own pleasure, and two for the sake of saving money on one of my summer favorites. I must skip straight to the point. I have only seen a quart of cherry tomatoes from our 5 plants and can you guess why? Yes, hungry Golden Retrievers who go to all lengths to break into my tomatoe jail. Come to think of it, I don't recall the Proverbs 31 woman having pets. Hmmmmmm.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Monday, August 16, 2010
Sierra Played to Sleep
I have had the luxury of being married to a man who plays piano beautifully. This is one venue through which he bonds with each of our children.. He takes them to the piano and plays until they fall asleep in his arms. Sometimes, these playing sessions will go on for an hour. This is because he doesn't want to wake them up!! (I can appreciate that!) So, with each child, I capture this on camera. What a blessing to be married to such a man! I just love him. I love watching him love his children. I love how he cares for them in his own way, through his own giftings, ones I cannot offer them myself. He is a loving man, tender at heart, romantically and passionately in love with me and forever fallen for his children. There is none other like him.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Help Yourself to Some Cheese, Sam
We are in the process of training our 2 year old, setting boundaries for him, and helping him to see his need for a Savior. One of his areas of struggle right now is wanting to go into the kitchen to help himself to whatever he feels like eating. This, of course, is not acceptable. Yet, as is the case with all of us, he did not learn after the first correction. On this particular morning, I came downstairs to find Sam had decided to eat the entire block of cheese while enjoying an episode of Phineas and Pherb.
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Underwear Hat Day
Sam, Sam, Sam, what are we going to do with you? You might just scar Sierra for life, sweet sonny boy. Oh, Sierra, please be patient with your brother. He wears Emma's shoes. He scribbles on important papers. He pees in the bathtub with no concern for his siblings who are sharing the bath. He messes up computer games. Now, he is putting his underwear on your head.
~~~~Of all our 6 children, so far Sam is the most entertaining of the bunch. Yesterday, he was having a generous heart and apparently wanted to share his underwear hats with Sierra. (Side note: We were browsing in Target recently and Sam noticed the underwear with "Elmo" on it. He had no idea of what he was asking for. In his mind, he just wanted "Elmo". So in an effort to start preparing him for the idea of wearing underwear, I bought it.)~~~~
Sam has worn a pair here and there, but my son prefers his underwear on his head. And apparently, he prefers it on his sister's head too. And even more apparently, she seems to be content with that. So yesterday was officially noted as Underwear Hat Day in our house. No, I didn't partake, but I did get some great pictures of it!
I LOVE MY KIDS!!!!!
~~~~Of all our 6 children, so far Sam is the most entertaining of the bunch. Yesterday, he was having a generous heart and apparently wanted to share his underwear hats with Sierra. (Side note: We were browsing in Target recently and Sam noticed the underwear with "Elmo" on it. He had no idea of what he was asking for. In his mind, he just wanted "Elmo". So in an effort to start preparing him for the idea of wearing underwear, I bought it.)~~~~
Sam has worn a pair here and there, but my son prefers his underwear on his head. And apparently, he prefers it on his sister's head too. And even more apparently, she seems to be content with that. So yesterday was officially noted as Underwear Hat Day in our house. No, I didn't partake, but I did get some great pictures of it!
I LOVE MY KIDS!!!!!
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Baby Who?
Here is a picture of the man I love! It could be one of four incredible men in my life! Who do you think it is?
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Family in Florida
Florida Family
We had a lovely time with family in Florida. We have the best family one could ask for down there! The Pompano area is scattered with Aunts and Uncles, Great Aunts and Great Uncles, and then of course, our amazing Grandpa. It was time well spent with Grandpa, Great Aunt Sylvia, Great Aunt Ruthie, Flo who is Grandpa's friend and companion, Aunt Sandy, Uncle Barry, Great Aunt Rozzie, and Great Uncle Hy. And just think, to our own kids, the Greats become Great, Greats!!! Grandpa plays the sax and clarinet. Hy plays the piano. So we had a little shin dig with old time music. The kids played with Aunt Rozzy while Aaron and I caught up with our family. Well, it's actually Aaron's family, by blood, but since I have no "seasoned" relatives of my own, I feel just as much a part of this group as Aaron does. Sierra was at a fun age where she would go to everyone and not cry. A couple months later and I'm not so sure how that would have worked out. Elley was able to give a recital of her latest pieces.
Heading into Grandpa's condo is an adventure. Not only is it a trip into the 70's with its decor and style, it is filled with stamps. Grandpa is a stamp dealer and has boxes and boxes of stamps he trades and sells. His dining room table is FILLED with pictures of his family, but I'd have to say our family stands out among the crowd. My mother-in-law, Grandpa's daughter, Karen is faithful to send lots of pictures. I think she is proud of her grandkids. Just a guess! ;o) So nevermind trying to eat at the table. It's sole purpose is to display... well..., ummm.... US!!!! My kids like the fact that they can find little lizards, sometimes, inside Grandpa's sunroom. That's a Florida thing that we Marylanders don't ever experience up here. I like the big newspaper book with old newspapers from Grandpa's earlier days. I photographed the open book with all of my kids' hands + Grandpa's hand laid upon it. It's my effort to be artistic. Not so sure I pulled it off, but it makes me happy anyway.
Our trips to Florida are always fulfilling. We just love seeing our family and are grateful to have them. I hope that our children remember them and learn to appreciate how fortunate they are to have so much history wrapped up in their stories... History of the last century and all its advances, history of the holocaust and all its tradgedies, and finally, history of their lineage and where they came from. We are blessed to have them!!!!
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Life is full as a family of eight! People ask me how I do it, and my honest answer is "I don't really know except by the grace of God." Some days seem perfect, and others, well, let's just say, not so perfect! Here is a peek into my busy life as a mother of 6 wonderful kids (Elley, Eric, Andrew, Emma, Sam, and Sierra) and wife to the best husband in the world.
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